You can delete the line with the not in stock item, and then add the in stock substitute item. While it sometimes works to just change the item line, sometimes it does not, right click on the line and delete or use menu edit>delete line and add what you need
Resolution for 'Changing a Bill issue: 'Changing a Bill of Material Item for an existing Inventory Assembly' available: Yes.
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